In the politics, when you indulge your family in the political affair, like what had happened to JDV, you will end up into web of scam and intrigue. Like in the arroyos and marcos, it is the family members or relatives will bring you down into political turmoil. You will become defensive to your family even though they are transparently involve into a scam, "blood is thicker than water"...But its difficult for us filipinos not to do the don'ts kasi mas importante sa atin ang hindi mapahiya sa sarili nating pamilya o relatives, kaya most of our politicians tend to become conceited to their constituents and to our country. Ano ba talaga ang importante ngayon, sa sarili mong pamilya o kamag anak?? O ang maging righteous sa bayan??