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    Normal lang bang maging friends mo ang dating mong lover? what is your opinion?
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by justme View Post
    Normal lang bang maging friends mo ang dating mong lover? what is your opinion?
    For me, it depends on how you parted your ways.... Yah i think its normal, you could be civil but no more no less, especialy if you still hurting inside coz its not easy to say "How are you" again to someone you spent all your time and just dump you for any reason. But if you parted with both of you agreed on the decission well maybe you could be friends, or be the best of friends.
     

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    No comments about that, maybe much better i think
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hamadash View Post
    For me, it depends on how you parted your ways.... Yah i think its normal, you could be civil but no more no less, especialy if you still hurting inside coz its not easy to say "How are you" again to someone you spent all your time and just dump you for any reason. But if you parted with both of you agreed on the decission well maybe you could be friends, or be the best of friends.

    hmmm for me theirs no problem with it , , truly they are still my friends...
    coz everytime i have a break up i always make it sure that we parted in a nice way...
     

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    ahmm,depende..kung talagang kaya mo nang humarap sa ex mo na walang nararamdaman na galit o kaya ay bitterness...
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by justme View Post
    Normal lang bang maging friends mo ang dating mong lover? what is your opinion?
    speaking from experience...it's very hard at the begining to make friends with my children's father because of his womanizing.. after our separation, i filed for divorce.....it took years to lift up the loathe and hurt that was in the very core of me!....i remarried and stayed married for 30 yrs.... (that was another chapter in my life)....as time went by, when his health was deteriorating, i stopped by to visit him...we chatted...he asked forgiveness for putting us through hell and told me that he really loved me with all his heart...we became the best of friends until his demise
    "que sera, sera... what will be, will be"
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by hummingbird View Post
    speaking from experience...it's very hard at the begining to make friends with my children's father because of his womanizing.. after our separation, i filed for divorce.....it took years to lift up the loathe and hurt that was in the very core of me!....i remarried and stayed married for 30 yrs.... (that was another chapter in my life)....as time went by, when his health was deteriorating, i stopped by to visit him...we chatted...he asked forgiveness for putting us through hell and told me that he really loved me with all his heart...we became the best of friends until his demise

    ... ganyan naman talaga ang buhay..pero may mga chances na syempre you never forget those old times na kayo pa at I agree na depende lang sa nyong pag dadala,,, and forgiveness is always the key to make you happy although hindi na kayo...
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by justme View Post
    Normal lang bang maging friends mo ang dating mong lover? what is your opinion?
    YES...!Definitely why not?!? There's nothing wrong with it, to be friends with your EX means a lot though, the two of you doesn't shared the love, that once both of you felt. but you're still intertwined by a relationship that will last a lifetime....which is the FRIENDSHIP.it will serves away to bring back the past and for all we know, love is sweeter in the second time around, or in the contrary both of you are just only friend. nothing more, nothing less...and to be friend with your EX is better than to forget him/her because the more you escape from the memories, the more BITTER you become...."The SOULS need friendship and the HEART needs love"....
    Last edited by honeybabe; 03-17-2008 at 09:43 PM.
     

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    Well, For Me.. Ok Lang Na Maging Friend Ang Ex...theres Nothing Wrong With It As Long They Know The Limitations Specially When Both Are Married Already...
     

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    I don't find any thing wrong of making friends with your EX. Everything is in the mind.
     

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