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    hi guys.. matanong ko lang...

    Why does it hurt seeing your former lover?
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by justme View Post
    hi guys.. matanong ko lang...

    Why does it hurt seeing your former lover?
    MINAHAL MO KAYA SIYA ANO?? OR BAKA ANDYAN PA RIN SIYA SA PUSO MO, KAYA MASAKIT TALAGA. YON YAN EHH
    life is short and borrowed make the BEST of it to the fullest. Life
    is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat
    you right.. Forget about the one's who don't. Believe everything happens
    for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands.
    If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be
    easy, they just promised it would be worth
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    Quote Originally Posted by Europa View Post
    MINAHAL MO KAYA SIYA ANO?? OR BAKA ANDYAN PA RIN SIYA SA PUSO MO, KAYA MASAKIT TALAGA. YON YAN EHH
    ewan ko ba... after all what i've been through...and after all this years of picking up the pieces of my life...i guess id never really moved on...hehehe...

    yung para bang whenever he invades your thought... reminiscing about the past.. you'll suddenly feel like you terribly miss him but you stop your self because he tore your heart out with lie and deceit...

    hai..ewan.. ko lang...ill just go on with the flow in life nlang ang always pray...especially against temptation...hehehe
     

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    ewan ko ba... after all what i've been through...and after all this years of picking up the pieces of my life...i guess id never really moved on...hehehe...

    yung para bang whenever he invades your thought... reminiscing about the past.. you'll suddenly feel like you terribly miss him but you stop your self because he tore your heart out with lie and deceit...
    I felt the same just me hihihi I absolutely agree with you. Ilang taon na ba yun since we broke up? hehe I can hardly remember it. But I would lie to myself if I wont admit that I still remember him and everytime I do in a sec. I always convince myself that fantasizing him worth no more.

    I still had this sudden rush in my blood every time I saw him in the street before (while I was still there in Naval). He always made me stunned for a minute. I just don't know. Maybe because I was not totally over him yet or maybe because it is hard to forget ONE GREAT LOVE that was once LOST. A love that was once BETRAYED and substituted with HURT and PAIN .


    But life must GO On! Life is still worth living for! Quesera sera!
     

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    yung para bang whenever he invades your thought... reminiscing about the past.. you'll suddenly feel like you terribly miss him but you stop your self because he tore your heart out with lie and deceit...


    for me he is nothing specially when he caused me pain and broke my heart...he is not worth my love !!!!! there is no such happy ending in the previous love affair... kaya di dapat panghinayangan....
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by justme View Post
    hi guys.. matanong ko lang...

    Why does it hurt seeing your former lover?
    It depends mare. Why? case to case, if ever you are separated or broke up with him due to no reasons at all and its all about faults then seeing him again will be sad point. Now, if ever you are separated because of good fate, for the benefit both of you and to the people around both of you, then seeing him again will be an excitement... o diba aminin.
     

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    kasi... d mo accept ang reality na wla na kmo there is something na unfinish bussiness na d nyo pinagusapan. Prang suddenly wla n kmo. Kasi u expected to much from her/him. U gave it all la u nag reserve for urself kasi u never think of the other reality that there would be a possibility or a greater chance that u and him are not meant to be... dami na nyo kasing pinag daanang dalawa from misundertanding to love quarrel... loving someone can be fulfilling but the sad reality is love comes with pain.. feeling pain would tell u that u really love that person nag sisi ka kasi d mo pinag tanggol relationship nyo....when u felt pain, dont fight against it just feel the pain, until it hurts no more...
     

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    I like to think it is God's way of telling you it is not yet time to find another lover. If you find another before your soul is healed, then I believe that new love is also doomed to failure. But check with God on that. If you listen He will tell you. Be patient.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justme View Post
    hi guys.. matanong ko lang...

    Why does it hurt seeing your former lover?
    definitely you still love him.
    "the heart has its reasons which reasons cannot understand"....
     

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    its just like this, you have this cute puppy and you were so fond of it, you give it a bath, sleep together, and even share your meals.

    then suddenly your parents decided to sell your puppy to someone that you dont know. after a month you accidentally seen your puppy with someone in the park, the puppy seems to be leaner and looks too dirty. its obvious that the new owner of the puppy doesn't give the care you once given it. the puppy still recognize you but the new owner doesn't want you to come closer to the puppy.

    suddenly you feel empty, you keep reminiscing the happy days you had with the puppy.
    now that its not yours anymore, you can't give the extra care for your former puppy.

    its the same with peoples, especially the girls. its the unexpressed love that makes it hurt, it is the "if only i was him, i will give all the love in the world and well be more happier" . it only means two things, either you still love him or because your still used to loving him.

    just my 5 cents though
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