ALL ABOUT VIRGINITY.. big deal or not.. why?

[jalmz]

just want to know your opinions on this topic.

[Jeff]

just want to know your opinions on this topic.

Not a big deal to me. At first, loyalty and honesty is what I prefer most to a lady. If she is virgin, then that is a very big bonus for me agi hehehe

[justme]

it'll be good to hear na its no big deal na ngaun kasi ang dami na kayang di na virgin...and besides kung mahal ka naman talaga ng lalaki maiintindihan naman un di ba? kung lahat ng lalaki gusto virgin pa mapapangasawa eh saan na mapupunta ung di na virgin...magmomongha?

[Wowie]

honesty, loyalty, lovingness is what I favor. I won't ask for more

[echo101]

Me, as a man looking for a partner, i don't consider virginity, personality and character is way more important than that. But it is good to find somebody who is still virgin, not for the sake of sex, but because of her purity as a woman. It was God who commanded all of us to keep ourselves pure until marriage, because God did not created sex for us to play around with. Sex has boundries, has its own laws and conditions. But the world today had totaly perverted sex, sa tingin ko nga sex ang pinaka-nasasalaula ng tao sa panahon ngaun eh.

[4everblue]

honesty, loyalty, lovingness is what I favor. I won't ask for more

i admire you for that....
wat matter most in a realtionship is Love and Respect...When u truly luv a person u will luv him/her for what she/he is now,not for wat she/he was...Respect ur luv one's by wat u see, by wat u feel..not by wat u hear from oders.

[certified_maldita]

i admire you for that....
wat matter most in a realtionship is Love and Respect...When u truly luv a person u will luv him/her for what she/he is now,not for wat she/he was...Respect ur luv one's by wat u see, by wat u feel..not by wat u hear from oders.

for me it depends nalang un sa guy.., kasi di ka naman nakikipagrelasyon dahil sa virginity kundi dahil mahal mo ang isang tao..

[decemberchild]

NOT A BIG DEAL,VIRGINITY DOESN'T MATTER NOW A DAYS, AS LONG AS YOU FEEL LOVE EACH OTHER..DON'T CARE WHAT PEOPLE SAY AS LONG AS YOU BOTH HAPPY!!LOVE ,RESPECT AND UNDERSTANDING IS THE BEST WAY TO MAKES RELATIONSHIP WORK.

[tweet5]

hi, everyone. this is my first time posting on this forum and that virginity issue interest me to do so.oh well, it's 2008, funny as it may seem but i still do believe in the sanctity of marriage. now that im residing abroad i tend to open up my mind the way other people believe in whatsover. like in my case, i have a 15yr old step daughter. im still trying to accept the fact of how she deal when it comes to sex thing cus u see, we've been brought up on the other way around(ALWAYS KEEP YOUR BOOK CLOSE UNTIL YOU KNOW HE IS THE ONE U WANA GO DOWN IN THE AISLE-as what my auntie always say). oh back to the issue, yeah she's just 15 OMG, and to think they dont stay long ang here comes another boyfriend. mind you, sometimes her dad picked up some used condoms---how ridiculous! i wonder how she coped with a situation like that... after all the rooting(excuse my lingo-i hope its acceptable).
so i guess it all depends on the person, you gotta love a person for what they are not just for one petty thing which is not common any longer.
that's all folks

[manresa]

Hi Tweet5,

Its NBD...We Filipinos are brought up with the fixation of an intact hymen..whew..that a woman who engages in PMS is dirty...that should not be the case...If we are to remain in that fixation then what we have are myopic views over things happening around us. Virginity cannot be equated with character. One can still be a good person despite the fact of being a non-virgin....Love cannot simply be conditioned on the state of a woman's hymen...if that is the case then we do not know how to love after all...